Facilitators Guide


Summary of the story

Sara watches her brother Sam leaving for a party and is upset that her brother gets more freedom that she does.  Sam arrives at a party with beer in his hand.  Sam meets Aster at the party and they start dancing.  Sam invites Aster to go and see his car.  They go to the car and have sex.  Six weeks later Aster messages Sam to tell him she is pregnant, presumably to him.  Sam says it’s not his problem.  Aster hasn’t been at the school for long and tells her new friend Sara that she is pregnant, Sara invites Aster to her home to talk about it.  Aster is surprised to find out that Sara’s brother is Sam.  Sam’s family are upset when they find out what has happened.

General questions to start discussions and explore the story

  • What’s happening in this story?
  • Explore points that are raised by participants – ask more questions about their statements.

Hints to prompt discussion

  • Communication between parents and children about their different values strengthens intergenerational relationships and helps develop respect for each other’s values.
  • Alcohol affects people’s decision making, and people sometimes take more risks when they are drunk than when they are more in control.
  • Sam should monitor his alcohol intake if he intends to drive home.
  • A couple having consensual sex should use condoms to prevent the risk of unplanned pregnancy and transmission of blood borne viruses and sexually transmissible infections.
  • Communicating important messages is best done face to face.
  • Both partners are responsible for ensuring they have safe sex, by using condoms for sex.
  • Both partners are responsible for the consequences of sex if they have not used condoms.
  • Families can provide good support in hard times, but family relationships can also be difficult. There are organisations which provide advice and support for people experiencing family difficulties.
  • There are many services available for people experiencing an unplanned pregnancy.

Services Available

Sexual Health Victoria

Sexual and reproductive health services for people under 25. Free condoms available.

Location: 901 Whitehorse Road, Box Hill, VIC

Phone: (03) 9257 0100 or visit SHV Box Hill Clinic

Relationships Australia

Provide relationship support services for individuals, families and communities
Phone: 1300 364 277 or visit Relationships Australia

Sexual Health Victoria Melbourne Clinic

Sexual and reproductive health services for people under 25.  Free condoms available

Location: Level 1, 94 Elizabeth St, Melbourne, VIC

Phone: (03) 9660 4700 or visit SHV Melbourne Clinic

National Health Service Directory

Directory to find a doctor in your local area

Visit National Health Services Directory

Dr Marie

Sexual health and unplanned pregnancy services

Phone: 1300 003 707 or Visit Dr Marie

Melbourne Sexual Health Centre

Free sexual health clinic, offering free condoms and testing and treatment including post-exposure prophylaxis if you think you have been exposed to HIV, walk-ins welcome.

Location: 580 Swanston St, Carlton, VIC
Phone: (03) 9341 6200 or visit Melbourne Sexual Health Centre